When you first set up your membership, the goal was probably pretty simple: get it working and get it launched.
That’s a totally fine way to start, because sometimes you have to get your stuff up and running before you know what needs to be tweaked.
You might have pieced together some platforms on the fly, maybe didn’t have it automated because you didn’t really know what to do or how to do it.
And now you’re thinking “this ain’t working” or “I don’t know how much longer I can do this” …
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ToggleEveryone loves what you’re offering, you’re having fun connecting with people in the community. You don’t want to quit your membership but you’re starting to feel like ya kinda hate it.
I would put money on it that you’ve simply outgrown your membership setup, and you’re in a weird phase where you either need to figure out a more sustainable way to run it – or you’re gonna have to break the news that you’re closing it.
Before you say bye-bye, let me just tell you that your membership has grown to where your current systems aren’t keeping up – and that is NOT a bad thing!
But of course, you know that if something doesn’t change soon, you also won’t be able to keep up.
If you’re feeling some friction around continuing to grow your membership, it’s a sign that you could use some systems to support your growth.
The structure that got you through your first launch, second, maybe even third is not the same structure that will continue to support your growth. You want …
You could continue to run your membership manually … BUT … you’re gonna have to have a dedicated team member to manage it for you because you have the rest of your business to run.
If you’re not in a place where you feel comfortable hiring a long-term team member, the next best thing is to revamp your systems so that they run in the background while you still get time to focus on your business.
At the risk of sounding cliche, these systems will run like a well-oiled machine, allowing you to onboarding members smoothly, offboard members gracefully, and track payments to catch revenue leaks before they become a bigger issue.
If you’ve been running your membership without solid systems in place, you’ve probably already felt the pinch: missed payments slipping through, clunky onboarding, an inbox full of member questions, and a growing sense that you’re spending more time managing the membership than enjoying it.
These issues usually start small, but they add up fast:
Sound familiar?
The good news is, these aren’t signs your membership is failing — they’re signs it’s time to strengthen the backend.
Now that we’ve looked at what happens without strong systems, let’s flip it and talk about the systems to set up, so you can actually enjoy running your membership again.
At a minimum, there are four core systems I recommend having in place if you want your membership to grow without draining every last bit of your energy:
Let’s dig into each of those …
Members need this as soon as they join:
When they join, hopefully they are getting access immediately. That’s the first thing that should be in place. Getting an email with a few bullet points, also important. I would give them the link to login, where to start in the member, and where to find the FAQs (where you’ve answered most of the customer service questions, like how to cancel, how to update their card, how to login, where to start, how to join the community, etc.)
And then, the tags & automations are more for you but also them (they just don’t know it). Tag your members in your email system so they receive membership-related emails. The automations are for getting access to the membership, sending the onboarding email(s), checking in with members, inviting them to the community – basically everything they’ll need to get started without a hitch.
I mean, there’s really a lot of things you can do here (but still keeping it simple for new members), but this is the bare minimum that I recommend.
Having a database that keeps track of all your members and payment hiccups, like failed payments, will help you stay on top of missed payments and cancellations.
Here’s what I like to set up for my clients:
There are other things that I have in my Airtable Member Database template, but not everything is completely necessary so just go ahead and hide any fields that feel distracting.
The reason I include their community name is because some people will use different names in the community versus the membership platform, and it’s handy to know that in case you need to manually remove them when they bounce or cancel. Sometimes they’ll change their name several times but it gives you a way to narrow it down.
Okay, this gets good here because you can do this very simply. First, jot down the most common questions you get from members. Then, write out what your typical response would be. Now we’re going to add these as email templates.
If you use Gmail for your inbox, you can enable email templates in your settings and save new email drafts as a new template. I’m not really sure if other platforms have this option.
Now when you get an email with one of your common questions, you can select the saved template that fits, customize it for that specific member’s issue, and send.
And while we’re talking about Gmail and inboxes, I recommend either having a separate inbox for your membership support, or setting up filters that sends membership issues to a folder that you’ll plan to check regularly.
It helps keep any negative/complain-y emails out of your immediate sight so you can conquer it when you’re in the customer service state of mind.
I know you don’t like to think about people leaving your membership, but as I said, it’s gonna happen. So the best way to handle this is to have a nice onboarding system that sends them off feeling good about the experience.
If you’re interacting with them directly, of course you’ll want to keep your emails pleasant. But if they cancel themselves and your systems do the rest of the work for you, you can still have an offboarding email go out to them automatically.Just let them know you loved having them in your membership, they’re welcome back any time, or whatever you want to say. I also like to set up a cancellation feedback form for clients and include the link in the offboarding email. That way, you can try to collect some feedback on why they left. Not everyone will fill that out but if you can gather some of that feedback, it’s still helpful!
Now, the big question that everyone wants to know …
Building new systems is like building any new habit – it takes some upfront time & effort to set it up and consistency to keep it going. I know, consistency isn’t my strongest suit so I completely understand if you’re feeling a bit of dread.
The cool thing about systems is that once they’re set up, you really only need to worry about A) updating them as needed and B) checking in to make sure they’re working.
How long that takes really depends on:
Some people could knock out the essentials in a week. For others, it might take a month or two, or even longer. You don’t need to rush it. Just starting with the one system that feels easiest to you right now can make a huge difference in how your membership runs.
This is what I do in my Membership Management Systems service. I do a full audit on your membership’s systems (both as a member and as an admin) and come up with a plan to make things work more efficiently.
From there, I’ll get those systems into place for you so you don’t have to be handed the plan and go “okayyy I’ll do that … someday … maybe … probably never …” I know what you’re thinking.
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